Character
I think it's kind of cool that this guy made this post. I don't know him, just ran across his blog while Googling for info about something, but the honesty and the humility are inspiring, not to mention his desire to protect her in a way that was still right, even though the pain of the breakup. Even just admitting that it was his fault probably took a lot of strength along with some unpalatable self-examination. Most break-ups aren't nearly this pretty.